| 1. | Spend the entire day watching romantic movies. |
| 2. | Spread rose petals all over the bedroom. |
| 3. | Visit a karaoke bar and surprise your lover by getting up and singing "your song" to him/her. |
| 4. | Give your lover a dozen roses -- and do it with a creative twist. Give eleven red roses and one white rose. Attach a note that reads: "In every bunch there's one who stands out -- and you are that one." |
| 5. | Write "I love you" on the bathroom mirror with a piece of soap. |
| 6. | What could be more classic than a fine gold locket with your photo inside? (Maybe a photo of the two of you.) |
| 7. | Kidnap her! Blindfold her. Drive her around town until she's thoroughly lost. Then reveal your destination: Her favorite restaurant, or maybe a romantic inn. |
| 8. | Place a little love note or poem under the driver's-side windshield wiper of his or her car. |
| 9. | If you'd like to spend a romantic summer night making wishes on falling stars, mark the second week in August on your calendar. The earth passes through the Perseid meteor belt around August 12 every year, which usually results in spectacular meteor showers for two to three nights. |
| 10. | Fake a power outage at home. (Loosen the fuses or throw the breaker switches.) With no TV to tempt you . . . with no computer to occupy you . . . with no furnace to heat you . . . you pretty much have no choice but to get out the candles, huddle around the fireplace and be romantic! |
| 11. | Bring home one small, unexpected gift each week. |
| 12. | Buy a lottery ticket. Give it to your partner with a little note attached: "I hit the jackpot when I married you!" |
| 13. | Make a GIANT greeting card out of a big cardboard box, (such as the type used to pack a refrigerator). |
| 14. | Every once in a while, kiss her hand with a flourish. Note: The proper way to kiss a woman's hand is to lower your lips to her hand. You don't raise her hand to your lips. |
| 15. | Get your partner a wristwatch. Inscribe it with: "I always have time for you." |
| 16. | Pick flowers for your partner from the side of the road. |
| 17. | Does your partner love M&M's? Fill a one-gallon glass jar with them as a gift. |
| 18. | Have "your song" playing on the stereo when your partner returns home from work. |
| 19. | Write a classic, romantic, passionate, handwritten, heartfelt love letter. Most adults haven't written a love letter since high school. (Why not? Have we lost our youthful idealism, or have we just gotten lazy?) |
| 20. | Attach a $100 bill to a Victoria's Secret catalog, along with a note to him saying, "You choose." |
| 21. | When out together in public, wink at your partner from across the room. |
| 22. | Want to jazz up the presentation of a special meal? Buy a little hunk of dry ice from a local ice house. Put it in a bowl of water and place it on your serving tray. You'll create wondrous, billowing white clouds! |
| 23. | When traveling, give your partner a bouquet of roses; one rose for each day that you'll be away. Attach a note that says something like this: "These three roses represent the three days I'll be away from you. They also symbolize the love, joy, and laughter we share together." |
| 24. | Identify that one pivotal event that brought the two of you together. Celebrate that event every year. |
| 25. | Write a short note to your lover that's spread out over several postcards, then mail the cards one at a time. You'll build anticipation for the romantic conclusion on the final postcard. (Maybe deliver that last one in person.) |
| 26. | On your partner's birthday, send a thank-you card to his/her mother. |
| 27. | Practice even-day/odd-day romance: On even days it's your turn to be romantic, and on odd days it's your partner's turn. |
| 28. | Call your partner from work, every-hour-on-the-hour, just to say "I love you." |
| 29. | If you're not much of a writer, create an audio love letter. Sit down with a tape recorder and just talk to her for ten minutes. Then giftwrap it and mail it to her. |
| 30. | Say "I love you" at least three times a day. |
| 31. | Don't just go out to a movie on Saturday, like always. Call your partner from work on Wednesday and formally ask for a date. |
| 32. | Slow-dance at a restaurant -- when there's no music playing. |
| 33. | Guys: Surprise her by performing one of her chores for her. (And not something easy like carrying the groceries in from the car, but something that requires some time and effort -- like cooking all the meals over a weekend, or cleaning the entire house.) |
| 34. | Unplug the TV. Put a note on the screen saying, "Turn me on instead." |
| 35. | Following a bubble bath you've prepared for her, wrap her in a towel that you've warmed up in the dryer. |
| 36. | Write your partner a love letter or poem on one sheet of paper. Glue it to thin cardboard, cut it up into puzzle-shaped pieces, then mail all the pieces. Or, mail one puzzle piece per day! |
| 37. | It's romantic -- but commonplace -- to eat dinner by candlelight. So here's a change of pace: Eat breakfast by candlelight. |
| 38. | Make a toast to one another every time you hold a wineglass. Make eye contact. Take turns making the toast. Whisper it. |
| 39. | Ladies: Send him a letter sealed with a kiss. (Use your reddest lipstick.) |
| 40. | Call a local radio station and request a special love song to be dedicated to your partner. Make sure he or she is listening! |
| 41. | Take your lover on a surprise two-week vacation to Paris. |
| 42. | Hold hands. |
| 43. | Make a custom certificate for your lover. (You can get blank certificate forms at a stationery or paper store.) Here are some suggestions: A certificate "For Putting Up With Me Over the Years," an award for "The World's Best Wife," a ribbon "For Hugs & Kisses Above and Beyond the Call of Duty." |
| 44. | Get the whole "family of products" in the fragrance of her favorite perfume (bath powder, soaps, cremes, candles, etc.) |
| 45. | Remove all the paper strips (that say "Kisses" on them) from a couple hundred Hershey's Kisses. Fill a jewelry box with them. Wrap 'em up and present them to your partner. Write a certificate explaining that the slips are coupons redeemable for one kiss each. |
| 46. | Call your partner from work for no other reason than to say, "I love you." |
| 47. | Many couples have "His" and "Hers" matching towels, but here are some other ideas: "His" and "Hers" matching silk pajamas, motorcycles, T-shirts, overnight bags (have them packed at all times), jack-o'-lanterns at Halloween, rocking chairs, Porsches (millionaires need love, too), heart-shaped tattoos, Christmas tree ornaments, tennis rackets, beach towels. |
| 48. | Mail your partner a Rolodex card with your name and number on it. Write on it: "Your instant resource for love. Call when lonely." |
| 49. | On your yearly romantic checklist, make plans for Valentine's Day -- well in advance! |
| 50. | Doesn't your partner deserve a trophy for being the "World's Best Lover"? Trophy shops have a wealth of ideas waiting for you. Just think of the romantic possibilities of plaques, medals, ribbons, nameplates, certificates and banners. And they all can be personalized, engraved, lettered or monogrammed. |