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How to Ask a Girl to a Dance
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Tags: Dances, School Dances, Asking Someone to a dance
Dances can be a really fun opportunity to get all dressed up, dance the night away, and get to know someone your interested in a little bit better. Don't be afraid to just go for it! Here is how toask a girl to a dance.
| 1. | Find out if she already has a date for the dance by asking her, or her friends. By phrasing the question casually you can find out what you need to know with minimal risk. Try asking, "So, who are you going to the dance with?". If you know one of her friends, you can also ask them, but be aware that the friend may tell the girl you asked. |
| 2. | Make sure you two are alone (not suspiciously alone) before you ask her to the dance, as this will be more comfortable for everybody. Take a deep breath and walk by her, pay a compliment and start a conversation. Don't just blurt out your question to get it over with. No matter how nervous you are, take your time. The chances are she will have made her decision before you ask her anyway. If she says no, do not ask why. Say, "Oh. Alright. That's fine." Don't make it evident if she's hurt your feelings. |
| 3. | Drive to pick her up for the dance; if you cannot drive them meet her at the dance. Try not to both go in the same ride from your parents or siblings. |
| 4. | Be a gentleman. |
| 5. | Tell her she looks nice. This is very important as many girls put a lot of time into looking nice for a school dance, and for their dates. Let her know you appreciate it. If she compliments your outfit, say thanks. Do not wait for her to compliment you first. |
| 6. | Bring a rose to pin to your shirt, and a rose-wrist band to put on her wrist. It's generous, proper, and she will love it and appreciate you for it. |
| 7. | Escort your date at the dance, meaning always be by her side unless she asks to talk or go somewhere for a few minutes. It should go without saying that if she does ask for some time to herself then give it to her, she is your date, not your servant. |
| 8. | Volunteer to get her drink. |
| 9. | Ask your date to dance. You may be formal and ask, "May I have this dance?" but if she is a friend of yours you might want to go with something a little more casual like: "Would you like to dance?". |
| 10. | Talk to her a little during the slow dances. Talking makes it a little more comfortable for the both of you. |
| 11. | If you'd like to dance with another friend, get permission from your date first. Going without consulting her is disrespectful and might give the wrong message. If she does it to you, don't mention it. Don't ruin it for the both of you. If she asks to dance with a friend, say yes. |
| 12. | Give her a hug when the dance is done. Tell her you had a great time. She will probably say the same. |
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