How to Win Someone Back
Tags: Win Him Back, Ex, Dating, Relationships, Breaking up
Now that you have broken up you can look back at the relationship and see the mistakes you have made. Learning from your errors can help you build better relationships in the future. Here is how you can win your ex back.
|1. ||Create some space between yourself and the ex. After taking the time to let your ex know you wish things could be better and you need some time, stop all phone calls, emails, text messages, etc.|
|2. ||Take some time to reflect on your own life. What improvements can be made? Be honest with yourself. Have you been selfish? Demanding? Argumentative? Angry? Jealous?|
|3. ||Once you've figured out what you may have done wrong in the relationship, resist the urge to call the ex and show off your newfound self-realization. You could be wrong. Actions speak louder than words. Just BE the new improved self.|
|4. ||Invite your ex to talk to you. Express regret things weren't working out between you and ask if you can talk about it now that you have some perspective. Ask if what went wrong was related to what you've been working on. Your ex may have a different perspective!|
|5. ||If you agree on the things that went wrong are the things you've changed about yourself, offer to try again as long as both of you can work on whatever is left unresolved.|
|6. ||Don't forget your ex could have improvements to make! If they were perfect they could have helped you work on your problems while still being together. Don't just cling to your emotions of wanting to be loved, work at understanding each other.|
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Before attempting this, be honest with yourself about whether you can have a healthy relationship with your ex. Don't fall victim from separation anxiety.
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